Empowerment Hour


#tapintuesday #tarkishaarise #littlegirlarise #thearising #purposefulfilled

TAP IN TUESDAY – June 25, 2019

“Kish, you’re glowing” has been something I’ve been hearing more frequently. And of course, I’ve thought it was my good makeup highlighter (lol) until someone said it when I wasn’t wearing makeup. I then realized it was more than that! Want the recipe to restoring your GLOW! Here you are…

▪️set and accomplish GOALS ▪️LOVE yourself ▪️OVERCOME everything that was meant to destroy/break you ▪️become WORRY free

TAP IN TUESDAY – June 18, 2019

Those around you need your encouragement. They need you to let them know they are doing great things, making an impact, and ultimately creating change. This week let someone around you know that you’re inspired by their greatness. Let them know their work matters!

TAP IN TUESDAY – June 11, 2019

Generally, we wait until we’ve completely accomplished a goal to celebrate, but I’ve found the value in celebrating along the way. It’s important that we occasionally acknowledge the small steps we’re making towards accomplishing big things!!! So yes, take time to celebrate the smaller accomplishments on the road to great victories! Have fun, turn up, LIVE!!! You deserve it!

TAP IN TUESDAY – June 4, 2019

Invest in yourself!! What better time do to that than The Arising: Move To Forgiveness! Add it to your calendar: November 8-9, 2019!

TAP IN TUESDAY – May 28, 2019

Are you taking care of yourself? Your total self? Don’t prioritize one part of you and neglect the other. May is Mental Health Awareness Month. Make sure you’re attending to your mental health…this month and all other months of the year.

TAP IN TUESDAY – May 14, 2019

It’s not your business. It’s not your battle. It’s not your problem. Remain focused on your purpose because distractions will surely keep you from pursuing it!

TAP IN TUESDAY – May 7, 2019

Make sure that you prioritize you!!! Make it your business to do something enjoyable, something new, different, exciting, something that makes your inner being smile. Take time to travel, relax, enjoy the company of family and friends, and most importantly, take care of you! Don’t work so hard to the point you don’t enjoy the fruit of your labor.

TAP IN TUESDAY – April 30, 2019

It’s okay to cry! God is bottling your tears up! In the midst of your cry, as you add a cry out to Him, your enemies and all those obstacles stacked against you will begin to scatter (Psalms 56:8-9)! Remember, what you sow in tears you’ll one day reap in joy!!! Sow now my friends, and reap much sooner than later💜 #tapintuesday #itstimetosoar #thehighlightyear

April 25, 2019 – I missed #tapintuesday so I’m making up for it today. For one time only (maybe lol), here’s #tryitthursday.Speak What You Want

We must be cognizant of the things we speak. Once before I was advised to discontinue speaking what I don’t want, and ONLY speak what I want (ex. Instead of speaking “I don’t want to be in debt” speak “I want to be debt free”). This year I’ve been putting that in action. I’ve been very intentional about speaking what I desire to have, do, and be! And by gully, that which I’m speaking is beginning to happen. So I encourage you to try it. Discontinue speaking what you don’t want, and begin only speaking what you want!

TAP IN TUESDAY – April 16, 2019

So often we think “dealing” with our issues is the resolution, but it’s a must that we heal from those issues. If we only deal with them when they are causing a problem and never truly heal from them, those matters tend to find a way to continue to affect us. Today I encourage you to shift from dealing to healing.

TAP IN TUESDAY – April 9, 2019

With the appropriate wound care, all wounds heal!

TAP IN TUESDAY – April 2, 2019

Express your gratitude!!

TAP IN TUESDAY – March 26, 2019

I dare you to sow in the area you’re seeking growth. Today, give away what you need and watch it find it’s way back to you!!

TAP IN TUESDAY – March 19, 2019

It’s imperative that we get rest! Running ourselves ragged will only diminish the power we possess to fulfill the purpose for which we were created. It’s a must that you take time to rest.

TAP IN TUESDAY – March 12, 2019

It’s okay to be different. And it’s most definitely okay to be you!

Also, take a minute to view my live radio interview on my Facebook page, as I share about Little Girl Arise. https://www.facebook.com/tarkisha.wallacelpc/videos/2272009662855690/

Jewels to Remember While Dreaming More Than One Dream

Consistently, I am speaking that this year will offer me more than any other year has ever offered me. 2019 is my HIGHLIGHT Year!!!

One way God has started highlighting my year is by opening doors and opportunities that only He could. The ladies of ShuEsq., The Shoe Bar, thought enough of my story that they asked to feature me as a woman that is “Living More Than One Dream.” This was an honor. Being able to share my story with other women has been an amazing experience, and has proven to be quite fulfilling. Take a moment to read “Jewels to Remember While Dreaming More Than One Dream,” and feel free to share with one of your friends that may need a little encouragement in living more than one dream!!!

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Thanks so much for your continued support!!!

thank you!

Support goes a long way, and you all have extended that and so much more. I am super grateful for each of you. For every purchase, like, comment, share, review, referral, word of encouragement, and everything else THANK YOU!!! It means a lot that you all understand the value in support, and you all acknowledge the meaningfulness of these projects. Because of you, these projects are doing well, but more than that, lives are being changed for the better forever!! This morning I humbly say thank you!


TAP IN TUESDAY – March 5, 2019

You, yes you! You are qualified!

TAP IN TUESDAY – February 26, 2019

I know you may be tired and even may want to give up. How do I know? I feel the very same way at times. But you can’t. We can’t. Someone needs that which we are working to complete, someone needs what’s in us. Keep going my friends. Keep going!

































































































































During this session, Define U Radio welcomes Tarkisha Wallace to the show.  Tarkisha is a Licensed Professional Counselor.  She works with individuals and families to work through life issues.

Tarkisha shares her experience in an unfiltered way of losing her son and dealing with the anger of the aftershock.  Her story is one of pure life lessons, the only kind you can learn in loss.  Getting pregnant out of order, in her own words, was devastating, but she concluded that God had it wrapped in purpose. She describes herself as determined, because she knows God has a plan for her life.  Closed doors, depression or whatever…she is determined to live in her purpose.

































































































































TAP IN TUESDAY – February 19, 2019

It’s time to see yourself in the future. Not for who you are now, but for the better version of yourself, which you’ll soon be!

TAP IN TUESDAY – February 12, 2019

He will use your pieces!

TAP IN TUESDAY – February 5, 2019

Go after everything it is that you want!

TAP IN TUESDAY – January 29, 2019

The PERFECT time is NOW!

TAP IN TUESDAY – January 22, 2019

GO GET JESUS!! Mark 5: 39-42

TAP IN TUESDAY – January 15, 2019

There are some things that present as a challenge or what we may refer to as too hard. And, in fact, those things may be quite difficult. However, the truth of the matter is it’s not TOO hard. Here’s a little help on pushing through the difficult challenges. Think about the end result, that makes it a little bit more doable, right? Let’s Tap In!

TAP IN TUESDAY – January 8, 2019

You may have to do some things alone! Do it anyway.

TAP IN TUESDAY – January 1, 2019

Happy New Year!!! #reflection #forwardmovement

TAP IN TUESDAY – December 25, 2018

TAP IN TUESDAY – December 18, 2018

December 4, 2018

How many times have you given up after a “no” or because what you were expecting was taking too long to happen? Now, how many times did it get better after giving up? Quitting after a “no,” a setback, or a lengthy waiting period doesn’t help you win or overcome; it simply prolongs your progress by halting the process. When we quit, more than likely, we either dwell on the fact that it didn’t happen or abandon that plan and start something different, leaving behind the promise we were working toward. If we don’t learn to wait or how to accept “no” we’ll find ourselves in this process more often than we’d like.

There really is a lesson in every no and waiting period. Take a second to reflect on periods of time you had to wait or situations where “no” was the answer received. Now, think about the positive results of that waiting period and/or “no.” Because we want immediate gratification, waiting seems hard and sometimes impossible. However, waiting produces benefits that immediate gratification doesn’t always offer. And though being told “no,” when it’s something we have our hearts and minds set on, might sometimes be discouraging, there is a lesson and greater opportunity in the “no’s” we receive.

Allow me to encourage you as you wait.  Be reminded of the old saying, “Good things come to those that wait.” Stop rushing it or trying to make it work on your own. We will always mess it up when we tamper with God’s design. Also, allow me to remind you that every “no” is not final, and to encourage you to keep going until you hear the consecutive “yes’” you’re longing to receive. If you haven’t received it yet, know this, it is still on its way. Be diligent in your belief and maintain faith that all those things, which God has promised you, and the desires of your heart will be fulfilled. Remind yourself, after the wait, and even after a series of “no’s,” comes the promise.

While you wait, meditate on these scriptures:

Psalms 37:34 – Wait for the LORD and keep His way, and He will exalt you to inherit the land you will look on when the wicked are cut off.

Isaiah 40:31 – But they who wait for the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint.

Lamentations 3:25 – The LORD is good to those who wait for Him, to the soul who seeks Him.

Psalms 37:7- Be still before the LORD and wait patiently for Him; fret not yourself over the one who prospers in His way, over the man who carries out evil devices!

James 1:12 – Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life, which God has promised to those who love Him.


Today, as with every other day, I have so much to be thankful for. This year God really amped up my “grateful for” list, and each of you have made that list. Thank you so much for the love and support shown since the release of Little Girl Arise; even before the project released. I’m most grateful that lives are forever being changed, and that those lives will reach others.
Take a moment to view this special video. Thank you so much Eddrick Hodges, of Hodges Media Team, for always coming through. I’m a tough client, but you manage to get past that and exceed my expectations. A special thank you to Sherice Jenkins-Forté and Ariana Rene Johnson for being open and willing to share, and my mom, KayKay Pounds and little sister, Kellie Wallace for the encouragement and support, which is extremely important.
I pray you all keep reading, keep healing, keep forgiving, and keep arising! It is your time…ARISE!


Little Girl Arise…The Story


Tuesday, October 16, 2018

It’s a Process!Maze

Understand this, where you are in life is exactly where you’re supposed to be. You may not arrive to your chosen destination as quickly as those around you; however, if you stay the course you will definitely “arrive.” I want to encourage you to make a commitment to yourself that beginning NOW you will no longer compare yourself to anyone or their journey. You don’t truly know their highs or lows, their support or lack thereof, and the focus, sacrifice, and dedication it took to get them where they are. One thing that’s clear is that they “arrived;” just as you will.

It’s a process. It doesn’t happen at the blink of an eye, snap of the finger, or wiggle of the nose, and it certainly doesn’t happen overnight. Your process will be different in many ways from those around you. While you might reach out for their support, don’t consume yourself with negative thinking because your process is taking a bit longer. Instead, gain everything you can from the journey so that when this process is complete you’re much more prepared for what’s to come. Because there is more for you, you know!

Trust God! Trust the process! Be encouraged! Be empowered!


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